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What to Write in an Anniversary Video: 70+ Lines for Every Year and Couple

Updated · 8 min read · by the Nine crew

In an anniversary video, write three things: a specific memory, what you love or admire now, and a wish for the years ahead. Keep each line short enough to say in one breath. Below are 70+ lines by year and relationship to copy or adapt.

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You have the idea, the date, maybe even the music. Then you open a blank note and write "Happy anniversary" and... nothing. That is normal. Writing about someone you love is strangely harder than writing a complaint to the council. This page gives you a formula, then a big pile of lines, sorted by year and by who you are writing to. Take them, change the details, make them yours.

What should you write in an anniversary video?

Use three parts: a memory, a truth, and a wish. The memory is a specific moment you shared. The truth is what you love or admire about them now. The wish looks ahead. Three short sentences cover 20 seconds of video. Six sentences, two per part, cover about a minute. Specific details always beat big adjectives.

PartQuestion to answerExample
MemoryWhat moment do we both still talk about?"Remember the tent that blew away in Maine?"
TruthWhat do I love about them today?"You still make every bad day funny."
WishWhat do I want for our next year?"More trips. Better tents."
Tip from Story Start with the memory, not "Happy anniversary." The first line is the hook. "Twelve years ago, you laughed so hard at my haircut you spilled your drink" gets attention. The greeting can come last.

What should you write for each anniversary year?

Match the tone to the milestone. Early years are playful and full of firsts. Middle years lean on shared history: homes, kids, inside jokes. Big milestones like the 25th and 50th deserve gratitude and a nod to the whole family. Pick a line, then swap in your own detail.

1st anniversary

  • "One year down. Forever to go. No pressure."
  • "A year ago I promised you forever. So far, so good."
  • "Our first year: one wedding, one apartment, zero matching mugs."
  • "Still can't believe I get to call you my husband." / "...my wife."
  • "Year one taught me you steal the covers and I don't care."
  • "Here's to the first of many, many anniversaries."

2nd and 3rd anniversary

  • "Two years in and you still laugh at the same joke every time."
  • "Year two: we learned to assemble furniture without a single argument. Almost."
  • "Three years of you, and I'm still finding new favorite things."
  • "Thanks for making our tiny place feel enormous."
  • "Every year with you is my new favorite year."

5th anniversary

  • "Five years, and you're still my favorite notification."
  • "Five years of inside jokes nobody else understands."
  • "Half a decade. We've outlasted two phones and a sofa."
  • "Five years ago I married my best friend. Turns out, best decision I've made."
  • "Wood is the fifth anniversary gift. You are my tree. That's all I've got."

10th anniversary

  • "Ten years. Thousands of dinners. Still love eating with you."
  • "A decade of you, and I'd sign up for ten more today."
  • "Ten years, three homes, one family, and you're still my favorite part."
  • "We've grown up together. Mostly. Some of us."
  • "Ten years of you finishing my sentences. Usually wrong. Always funny."

25th anniversary

  • "Twenty-five years. Silver suits us."
  • "A quarter century of choosing each other. Every single day."
  • "We've been married longer than we were single. I like this side better."
  • "Twenty-five years, and your hand still fits mine."
  • "Half the fun was the mess we made along the way."

40th and 50th anniversary

  • "Forty years of ruby-red love and one very old recliner."
  • "Fifty years. Golden, like you both."
  • "Half a century of dancing in the kitchen."
  • "Everything we have started with a yes fifty years ago."
  • "You two wrote the love story the rest of us are still learning from."

What do you write in an anniversary video for your husband or wife?

Write like you talk to them, not like a card. Mention one habit, one moment and one promise. A joke about yourself is fine. A joke about them is risky. Here are lines for partners, whether you are writing to a husband, a wife, a boyfriend or a girlfriend.

  • "You're the reason our house feels like home."
  • "Thank you for the tea you make me before I ask."
  • "I'd still swipe right. Every time."
  • "You make hard days lighter and good days better."
  • "I love our boring Sundays more than any vacation."
  • "You were worth every awkward first date before you."
  • "Thank you for laughing when I trip. And for helping me up after."
  • "My favorite place in the world is next to you on the couch."
  • "You still hold my hand in parking lots. Never stop."
  • "Thank you for choosing me, again and again, even on the grumpy days."

For full video concepts, see anniversary video ideas for your husband and anniversary video ideas for your wife.

What do you write for your parents' anniversary?

Thank them, name a lesson, and celebrate them as a couple, not just as your parents. Children often forget the last part: your parents were in love before you arrived. Mention something they do together, like the crossword or the Sunday walk.

  • "Thank you for showing us what love looks like on an ordinary Tuesday."
  • "You two are still the team to beat."
  • "Everything we know about kindness, we learned watching you."
  • "Happy anniversary to the couple who taught me that sorry and pancakes fix most things."
  • "Thank you for staying, building and laughing, for all these years."
  • "You make marriage look easy. We know you just make it look that way."

Planning the big one? Read parents' 50th anniversary video ideas.

What to write for friends, siblings or grandparents

  • Friends: "Congratulations on another year of putting up with each other. We're proud of you both."
  • Friends: "You two make the rest of us believe in dinner parties and forever."
  • Friends: "Happy anniversary to our favorite couple to double date with."
  • Grandparents: "Thank you for the cookies, the stories and the example."
  • Grandparents: "Sixty years of holding hands. Our whole family started with that."
  • From the kids: "Happy anniversary, Mom and Dad. Please don't kiss in front of us."
  • From the kids: "Thanks for getting married. We like existing."
  • Friends: "Your wedding was the best party we ever went to. Your marriage is even better."
  • Grandparents: "You showed us that love is mostly showing up, every day, with coffee."
  • Siblings: "Happy anniversary to my sister and the brave man who married into this family."
  • Siblings: "Thank you for making our family bigger and louder in the best way."

What are some funny lines for an anniversary video?

  • "Happy anniversary to the only person I'd share my fries with. Sometimes."
  • "Thanks for not leaving when I snore. Or sing."
  • "Another year of you being right. Please stop."
  • "We said 'in sickness and in health.' We did not say anything about the man flu."
  • "Love you more than the TV remote. Barely."
  • "You're my favorite person to annoy for the rest of my life."

Short lines for the last card

  • "Happy anniversary. Still you. Always you."
  • "Year 12. Best one yet."
  • "To us, and whatever comes next."
  • "Same time next year?"
  • "Here's to the next chapter."
  • "Love you. Obviously."
Skip this Copying a line word for word without changing a single detail. Swap in one real thing, a place, a pet's name, a year, and the line becomes yours. Otherwise it reads like a card from a gas station.

The best anniversary line is one nobody else could have written.

Turning your words into a video in Nine

  1. Step 1

    Pick three lines. A memory, a truth, a wish. Change one detail in each to make it yours.

  2. Step 2

    Read them aloud. Two to three words a second is a relaxed pace. Cut anything you stumble on.

  3. Step 3

    Put one line per scene. Each line needs a picture: the tent, the kitchen, the couch.

  4. Step 4

    Give it a clean ending. The names and "Happy anniversary" on a still card.

Once the words are right, the rest can be quick. In Nine, paste your lines as a script, one paragraph per scene, and the crew draws the film while you watch, with a voice, music and sound effects. If three lines feel like too much, the name-and-one-line template turns a single sentence and your two names into a finished card. Or record yourself reading your lines and the film follows your voice, which is usually the part that makes people cry. No photos needed: a drawn tent in Maine looks better than the blurry real one anyway. Change anything in plain words, like "slower on the last line" or "warmer colors." You get a video file in wide, tall and square, and you send it yourself. A 20-second version fits the Film plan at $29 a month, and you see the price before it starts. See pricing or try it first.

Questions people ask

How long should an anniversary message be in a video?

For a short video, three to six sentences is plenty. At a relaxed speaking pace of two to three words per second, 50 words fills about 20 seconds and 150 words about a minute. Shorter messages feel more heartfelt and are easier to rewatch. You can always write a longer letter separately.

What do you write in an anniversary video if you are not good with words?

Use the three-part formula: one memory, one thing you love now, one wish. Write it as if you were texting them. Plain words sound more honest than fancy ones. Then borrow a line from a list like this one and change one detail so it sounds like you.

What are the traditional anniversary gifts by year?

The best known are paper for the first year, wood for the fifth, tin or aluminum for the tenth, silver for the 25th, ruby for the 40th and gold for the 50th. You can nod to them in your video, like a line about "golden years" or a drawn silver theme.

Should I write an anniversary video message in my own words?

Yes, as much as possible. Ready-made lines are a good starting point, but personal details make it land: the place you met, a nickname, a pet, a song. If you use a line from a list, change at least one word to something only the two of you would understand.

What is a good short anniversary caption to go with the video?

Keep it to one line: "Year seven, still my favorite." "Ten years, zero regrets." "Happy anniversary to my person." Short captions let the video do the talking. If you post it publicly, keep the more private lines in the video you send only to your partner.

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