Craft says I make video cards for a living, and I still keep a shoebox of paper ones. The corners are bent. Nobody touch the corners.

Video Card vs Paper Card: An Honest Comparison (Paper Wins Sometimes)

Updated · 6 min read · by the Nine crew

Send a paper card when it should be kept, held or displayed, or when the person does not use a smartphone. Send a video card when speed, distance, sound or a big list matters. For the people who matter most, sending both is often the best answer.

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This page is written by a company that makes video cards, so you have every right to expect it to say "video wins, obviously". It does not. Paper cards have things a video will never have, and there are times when sending a video would be the wrong call. Here is the honest version, so you can pick the right one for each person on your list.

Is a video card better than a paper card?

Neither is better everywhere. A paper card wins when it should be kept, held, displayed or read by someone who does not use a smartphone. A video card wins when you are far away, late, sending to many people, or when a voice, music and movement say more than handwriting can. Many people send both.

Video card vs paper card: the side-by-side

Paper cardVideo card
Can be kept and heldYes, for decadesOnly if they save the file
On displayMantelpiece, fridge, office wallNo
HandwritingYes, and it mattersNo
Voice, music, movementNo (unless it sings, badly)Yes
SpeedDays, more abroadArrives instantly
Sending to 40 people40 cards, 40 stamps, one sore handOne film, sent 40 times
Last minuteUsually too lateFine on the day
Older relatives without smartphonesPerfectMay never be seen
Cost per cardCard plus postage, every timeMostly up front, then free to share
WastePaper, envelopes, shippingNone to recycle

When is a paper card the better choice?

Choose paper when the card itself is part of the gift, when it should be kept, or when the person does not live on their phone. There is no shame in it. Some moments want an envelope.

  • Sympathy and loss. A handwritten note to someone grieving is kinder than a video in a busy chat. It can be read when they are ready, and read again. (For a film made to honor someone at a memorial, that is a different thing; see a film for a memorial.)
  • People who do not use smartphones. If Great-Aunt Joan has a landline and a very nice pen, send her paper.
  • The keepsake moments. A wedding, a new baby, a child's first birthday card from Grandpa. These go in boxes and get read again in 30 years.
  • When you want it displayed. Holiday cards on a string across the living room are a whole tradition. A video cannot hang there.
  • Very formal business. Some clients expect a printed card on good paper, and that expectation is part of the relationship.
  • When your handwriting is the message. A love note, an apology, a thank-you to a teacher. Your handwriting says "I sat down for this".

If it belongs in a shoebox in thirty years, send paper.

When is a video card the better choice?

Choose video when speed, distance, sound or a long list matters, or when the thing you want to say is funny, moving or musical. A video carries a voice, and a voice carries a lot.

  • Family far away. International post in December is slow and unpredictable. A video arrives in time, every time.
  • Last-minute. Forgot the birthday? A video can be made and sent the same day.
  • A big list. Forty holiday greetings from one business or a big extended family. One film, sent to everyone.
  • Kids' voices. A grandchild saying "Happy birthday, Nana" is something paper simply cannot hold.
  • Something funny. Jokes need timing. A pause, a drawn dog looking guilty, a sound effect. Paper can only stand there.
  • Sharing in a group. A video in the family group chat gets reactions from everyone. A paper card is seen by the people in one kitchen.
Skip this Sending a video card to someone who you know cannot open it, just because it is easier for you. That is not a card; it is a chore you gave them. Either help them watch it or pick up a pen.

Can you send both a video and a paper card?

Yes, and for the people who matter most, it is often the best of both. The video arrives on the day with your voice and a laugh; the paper arrives later and goes on the shelf. A trick many families use: send one video to the whole list, and handwrite paper cards only for the six or seven people who will treasure them.

Tip from Craft Write one short line in the paper card that points to the film: "Check your phone for the moving version!" It links the two and makes both feel planned, rather than one looking like a backup for the other.

How to decide for each person on your list

Go through your list once with these steps. It takes ten minutes and saves the "did we send one to Uncle Pete?" panic on December 23rd.

  1. Step 1

    Mark who has no smartphone. They get paper. Done.

  2. Step 2

    Mark the keepsake people. Grandparents, your closest friend, anyone who keeps cards. They get paper, and maybe a video too.

  3. Step 3

    Mark who is far away. They get the video, so it arrives in time.

  4. Step 4

    Everyone else gets the video. One film, one warm line of text, sent in an evening.

Making a video card in Nine

If some of your list is getting a video, Nine can make it: a short drawn film with a voice, music and sound effects. Start from a template with a name and one line, write a short script where each paragraph becomes a scene, or upload a voice recording so the card carries a real voice. You watch it being made, change things in plain words, and get a video file in tall, square and wide to send yourself.

The Film plan is $29 a month for films up to 20 seconds, and every film shows its price before it starts, so you can decide whether it is worth it compared with a stack of stamps. See pricing. For the practical sending bits, read how to send a video card by text, and for holiday ideas, the animated Christmas card for family guide.

Questions people ask

Are e-cards or video cards rude?

Not in general. For birthdays, holidays and congratulations, most people are happy to receive a personal video card, especially one with their name and real words. Where it can feel thin is sympathy, very formal occasions, and anyone who cannot easily open videos. There, paper is kinder.

Do people keep video cards?

Some do: they save the file, or it stays in the chat and gets watched again. But it is not the same as a card in a box. If you want something kept for decades, send paper, or send both and let the video be the fun, instant part.

Is a video card cheaper than a paper card?

For one card to one person, a paper card from a shop is usually cheaper. For many people, a video card often costs less overall, because one film can be sent to everyone with no postage. It depends on how many cards you send and how you make the video.

Is it OK to send a video card for a sympathy message?

A handwritten note is usually kinder for sympathy, because it can be read quietly and kept. A video in a busy chat can feel out of place. A memorial film shown at a service or shared by the family is different, and can be a beautiful tribute.

Are paper cards better for the environment than video cards?

A video card has no paper, envelope or shipping, so there is nothing to recycle. Paper cards use materials and transport, though many are recyclable. If you care about waste, a mix works well: video for most people, paper only for those who will truly keep it.

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